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Traditionally gay men have worn coloured hankies or bandanas to indicate their sexual/SM preferences. In the left or right back pocket they signify being top/dominant or bottom/submissive. Worn around the neck they’re supposed to indicate someone who plays both roles.
Of course there are those of us who are just into coloured bandanas so there’s no substitute for discussing things first.
LEFT SIDE |
COLOUR
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RIGHT SIDE
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Negotiable |
Keys
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Definitely Bottom
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Heavy S&M Top |
Black
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Heavy S&M Bottom
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Bondage Top |
Grey
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Bondage bottom
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Rubber top |
Dark grey
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Encase me in rubber
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Fist Fucker |
Red
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Fist Fuckee
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Anything, anytime |
Orange
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Nothing right now
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Pisser |
Yellow
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Pissee
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Fucker |
Navy Blue
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Fuckee
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Cop |
Medium Blue
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Cop-sucker
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C/B Torturer |
Teal Blue
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C/B Torturee
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69’er |
Robin Egg Blue
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Anything but
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Wants blow job |
Light Blue
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Expert Cocksucker
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Piercer |
Purple
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Piercee
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Dildo Fucker |
Light Pink
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Dildo Fuckee
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Tit Torturer |
Dark Pink
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Tit Torturee
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Has 8″ or More |
Mustard
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Wants 8″ or More
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Wants to be rimmed |
Beige
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Likes to rim
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Scat, Top |
Brown
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Scat, Bottom
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Jack me off |
White
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Will do us both
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Catherizer |
Lemon
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Catherizee
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2 Looking for 1 |
Gold
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1 Looking for 2
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Likes Orgies |
Copper
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Doing it alone
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2-Handed Fister |
Dark Red
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2-Handed Fistee
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Likes toes sucked |
Salmon
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Shrimper
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Latex Fetish, Top |
Charcoal
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Latex Bottom
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Enema, Top |
Maroon
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Enema, Bottom
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Cigar Smoker |
Tan
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Likes cigars
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Likes Drag |
Lavender
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Wears Drag
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Sex in the Shower |
Aqua
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Same, cold water
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Likes pits sucked |
Magenta
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Armpit freak
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Two-Tons of Fun |
Apricot
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Chubby chaser
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Spanker |
Fuschia
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Spankee
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Hustler |
Kelly Green
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“John”
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Daddy |
Hunter Green
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Son
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Dines off Bottom |
Lime Green
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Dinner plate
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Wears Uniforms |
Olive Drab
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Likes Uniforms
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Military Discp. Top |
Camouflage
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Discipline Bottom
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Cowboy |
Rust
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His Horse
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Likes Razors – Top |
Burgundy
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Like to be cut
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Looking for D.O.M. |
Dirty White
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Dirty Old Man
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Gives Hot Wax |
Steel Grey
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Likes Hot Wax
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Cums in Scum Bags |
Cream
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Sucks cum out
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Likes Navel Worship |
Mauve
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Has navel fetish
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Likes Menstruating Women |
Red Polka Dot
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Woman Menstruating
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Spits |
Pale Yellow
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Drool crazy
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Star Fucker |
Silver Lame’
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Star?
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Likes bottom Musclemen |
Gold Lamé
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Likes top Musclemen
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Has Tattoos |
Leopard
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Likes Tattoos
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Uncut |
Brown Lace
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Likes uncut
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Circumsized |
Brown Satin
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Like cut cock
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Owns a Suit |
Grey Flannel
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Like men in suits
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Likes White Bottoms |
White Lace
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Likes White Top
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Likes Black Botoms |
Black/White Strip
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Likes Black Top
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Likes Latino Bottom |
Brown/White Strip
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Likes Latino Top
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Likes Oriental Bottom |
Yellow/White Strip
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Likes Oriental Top
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Shaver |
Red/White Strip
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Shavee
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Wears Boxer shorts |
Paisley
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Likes Boxer shorts
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Rides a Motorcycle |
Chamois
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Likes Bikers
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Good Mechanic |
Shop Rag
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Needs Lube Job
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Gives Hot Motoroil Massage |
Handywipe
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Wears it well
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Stinks |
Kleenex
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Sniffs
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Wears a dirty jock |
Dirty Jockstrap
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Suck ’em clean
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Outdoor Sex, Top |
Mosquito Netting
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Outdoor Sex, Bottom
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Steel Restraints, Top |
Handcuffs
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Steel Restraints, Bottom
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Teddy Bear |
Fake Fur
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Likes Hairy Men
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Abrasion, Top |
Wire Brush
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Abrasion, Bottom
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Hairdresser |
Hair Brush
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Needs grooming
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Lover out, my place ok |
Toothbrush
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Your place only
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Stapper |
Black Strap
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Strappee
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Whipper |
Cat-of-Ninetails
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Whippee
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Gives Leather Sex |
Piece of Black Leather
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Receives Leather Sex
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Fist Fucker w/ Gloves |
Black Leather Gloves
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be fisted w/ Gloves
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Foot Fucker |
Red Sock
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Foot Fuckee
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Gives Slime |
Oil Pump Can
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Receives Slime
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Wrestling – No Rules |
Sweat Band
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Wrestling – Rules
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Voyeur |
Shear Material
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Exhibitionist
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Japanese Bondage, Top |
Rope
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Japanese Bondage, Bottom
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Offering Dinner |
Plastic Fork
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Looking for Dinner
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Out for Brunch |
Celery Stalk
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Being Taken to Brunch
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Electrotorture, Top |
Electric Cord & Plug
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Electrotorture, Bottom
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Pumper |
Pump
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Likes to be pumped
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