Traditionally gay men have worn coloured hankies or bandanas to indicate their sexual/SM preferences. In the left or right back pocket they signify being top/dominant or bottom/submissive. Worn around the neck they’re supposed to indicate someone who plays both roles.

Of course there are those of us who are just into coloured bandanas so there’s no substitute for discussing things first.

LEFT SIDE
COLOUR
RIGHT SIDE
Negotiable
Keys
Definitely Bottom
Heavy S&M Top
Black
Heavy S&M Bottom
Bondage Top
Grey
Bondage bottom
Rubber top
Dark grey
Encase me in rubber
Fist Fucker
Red
Fist Fuckee
Anything, anytime
Orange
Nothing right now
Pisser
Yellow
Pissee
Fucker
Navy Blue
Fuckee
Cop
Medium Blue
Cop-sucker
C/B Torturer
Teal Blue
C/B Torturee
69’er
Robin Egg Blue
Anything but
Wants blow job
Light Blue
Expert Cocksucker
Piercer
Purple
Piercee
Dildo Fucker
Light Pink
Dildo Fuckee
Tit Torturer
Dark Pink
Tit Torturee
Has 8″ or More
Mustard
Wants 8″ or More
Wants to be rimmed
Beige
Likes to rim
Scat, Top
Brown
Scat, Bottom
Jack me off
White
Will do us both
Catherizer
Lemon
Catherizee
2 Looking for 1
Gold
1 Looking for 2
Likes Orgies
Copper
Doing it alone
2-Handed Fister
Dark Red
2-Handed Fistee
Likes toes sucked
Salmon
Shrimper
Latex Fetish, Top
Charcoal
Latex Bottom
Enema, Top
Maroon
Enema, Bottom
Cigar Smoker
Tan
Likes cigars
Likes Drag
Lavender
Wears Drag
Sex in the Shower
Aqua
Same, cold water
Likes pits sucked
Magenta
Armpit freak
Two-Tons of Fun
Apricot
Chubby chaser
Spanker
Fuschia
Spankee
Hustler
Kelly Green
“John”
Daddy
Hunter Green
Son
Dines off Bottom
Lime Green
Dinner plate
Wears Uniforms
Olive Drab
Likes Uniforms
Military Discp. Top
Camouflage
Discipline Bottom
Cowboy
Rust
His Horse
Likes Razors – Top
Burgundy
Like to be cut
Looking for D.O.M.
Dirty White
Dirty Old Man
Gives Hot Wax
Steel Grey
Likes Hot Wax
Cums in Scum Bags
Cream
Sucks cum out
Likes Navel Worship
Mauve
Has navel fetish
Likes Menstruating Women
Red Polka Dot
Woman Menstruating
Spits
Pale Yellow
Drool crazy
Star Fucker
Silver Lame’
Star?
Likes bottom Musclemen
Gold Lamé
Likes top Musclemen
Has Tattoos
Leopard
Likes Tattoos
Uncut
Brown Lace
Likes uncut
Circumsized
Brown Satin
Like cut cock
Owns a Suit
Grey Flannel
Like men in suits
Likes White Bottoms
White Lace
Likes White Top
Likes Black Botoms
Black/White Strip
Likes Black Top
Likes Latino Bottom
Brown/White Strip
Likes Latino Top
Likes Oriental Bottom
Yellow/White Strip
Likes Oriental Top
Shaver
Red/White Strip
Shavee
Wears Boxer shorts
Paisley
Likes Boxer shorts
Rides a Motorcycle
Chamois
Likes Bikers
Good Mechanic
Shop Rag
Needs Lube Job
Gives Hot Motoroil Massage
Handywipe
Wears it well
Stinks
Kleenex
Sniffs
Wears a dirty jock
Dirty Jockstrap
Suck ’em clean
Outdoor Sex, Top
Mosquito Netting
Outdoor Sex, Bottom
Steel Restraints, Top
Handcuffs
Steel Restraints, Bottom
Teddy Bear
Fake Fur
Likes Hairy Men
Abrasion, Top
Wire Brush
Abrasion, Bottom
Hairdresser
Hair Brush
Needs grooming
Lover out, my place ok
Toothbrush
Your place only
Stapper
Black Strap
Strappee
Whipper
Cat-of-Ninetails
Whippee
Gives Leather Sex
Piece of Black Leather
Receives Leather Sex
Fist Fucker w/ Gloves
Black Leather Gloves
be fisted w/ Gloves
Foot Fucker
Red Sock
Foot Fuckee
Gives Slime
Oil Pump Can
Receives Slime
Wrestling – No Rules
Sweat Band
Wrestling – Rules
Voyeur
Shear Material
Exhibitionist
Japanese Bondage, Top
Rope
Japanese Bondage, Bottom
Offering Dinner
Plastic Fork
Looking for Dinner
Out for Brunch
Celery Stalk
Being Taken to Brunch
Electrotorture, Top
Electric Cord & Plug
Electrotorture, Bottom
Pumper
Pump
Likes to be pumped

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