SMG Calendar 2024

Main focus for each month but all are subject to change.

Jan 18th – Encasement

Feb 15th – Bondage & restraint

Mar 21st – CP & Impact play

Apr 18th – DIY & General Fetish

May 16th – Electro

Jun 20th Masters & Slaves

July 18th – Birthday Party + General Fetish

Aug 15th Sensation Play & General Fetish

Sep 19th – Fisting

Oct 17th Loctober chastity

Nov 21st – Impact Play + CP

Dec 19th Christmas Party

SMG Calender 2024

Main focus for each month but all are subject to change.

Jan 18th – Encasement

Feb 15th – Bondage & restraint

Mar 21st – CP & Impact play

Apr 18th – DIY & General Fetish

May 16th – Electro

Jun 20th Masters & Slaves

July 18th – Birthday Party + General Fetish

Aug 15th Sensation Play & General Fetish

Sep 19th – Fisting

Oct 17th Loctober chastity

Nov 21st – Impact Play + CP

Dec 19th Christmas Party

May 2023 Update

Greetings all and first of all a huge thankyou to everyone who came along to the April CP night. One of our best nights in a long time and there was a great atmosphere as well as the pleasing sounds of a great deal of impact play going on around the club. We hope that the intrepid explorers among you discovered the extra space that has been created with the alterations which Alan and his team have made to the club

May promises to be a crazy month with no more than 3 public holidays to contend with and royalty in abundance but we will be welcoming you all back on Thursday 18th for our next Discovery night. The theme is Electro but we are also happy to welcome our good friend Kai and the playful members of his Puppy Pride group who will have a well equipped playspace set up which is bound to get those tails wagging!

Happy New Year – January 2023

Greetings to all our friends and supporters and welcome to a New Year at SM Gays. First of all let me say a big thank you to all of our guests both old and new, to our wonderful volunteers who make the events so much fun, and to Alan and his team at The Bunker for continuing to make us so welcome at the club.

We are happy to announce our calendar of events for the coming year but do keep in mind that these are subject to change dependant on such things as availability of ‘specialists’ etc. so do check the calendar regularly. Of course the themes are the main event of the evenings but as always we encourage other activities to take place throughout the event and you will usually find someone leading one or more of the basic activities such as bondage, restraint, powerplay or cp. If anyone wants to suggest an activity or better still to organise one please let us know.

We have begun collecting names and email addresses to establish a membership programme and we hope that early in the new year we may start to issue membership cards and send out a monthly newsletter. As an incentive to members we will change the admission criteria on our Discovery nights and although we want to keep the current £10 entrance fee, the free drinks tickets will only be available to registered members. We will announce this change in advance so don’t worry about it just yet.

We look forward to seeing you all really soon!

Tim (Master Tim)

Autumn Update

Greetings all. Firstly we want to thank all of you who made our first three post lockdown Discovery nights such a great success. Like so many others we were hesitant about returning to real-life events but we needn’t have worried. Thanks to our host Alan Roberts at Bunker Bar, we were able to safely start up again and your loyalty in turning out has shown that our belief that there is still a place for SM Gays on the London scene was well founded.

It has been great to see old friends back again and also really gratifying to welcome lots of new faces of all ages! Now that we are firmly back on the map, the committee has come up with a calendar of events taking us right through to the end of 2022. Do keep checking in as each event will be described in more detail as the date approaches and the themes may even change depending on needs and the availability of demonstrators.

We have no intention of letting our 40th year go unmarked and we will do this at our annual Christmas Party in December. We are also in the final stages of preparing to accept an amazing award from the Leather Hall of Fame, in America at the end of this month (Nov 2021) so watch out for more details of that coming soon.

Thanks again for your continued support and we look forward to seeing many of you at our next Discovery night on 18th.

Master Tim

We’re Back!

As the world drags itself back to some sort of normality, we are looking forward to welcoming you all back to our monthly discovery nights at London’s Bunker Bar. Since the government has yet to settle on the final version of what a safe space should be we will post regular updates here and on our official Twitter feed (@sm_gays). For now we will run these events as social evenings and while there might not be an organised theme as you have come to expect, we will be on hand to help, advise and encourage your favourite kinks as always. Of course as soon as things settle we will introduce regular themed events once more.

So our first night will be 19th August and we will be posting details as already mentioned but in the meantime pop over to the Bunker website at http://bunkerbar.co.uk/ for all essential info.

Christmas 2020

Greetings dear friends! What a year it’s been? We certainly had no idea when we closed our doors in March that 10 months later we would still be waiting to reopen and welcome you all back. I am writing this on the day we should be holding our annual Christmas Party but sadly this year it’s not to be. Rest assured we will be back just as soon as we can and as soon as our friends at The Bunker Bar are allowed to reopen.

Next year SM Gays will be celebrating 40 years since the first brave men got together to form a support group for our community. We are committed to driving their intentions forward and we hope to arrange a suitable celebration as soon as it is safe to do so.

We are enormously gratified that just last weekend at the virtual meeting of CLAW in America, they announced their intention to induct SM Gays into the Leather Hall of Fame in 2021. This is a huge honour for us and we are truly grateful to our supporters at CLAW, at the LHOF and the Leather Archive. More on this coming soon.

We truly hope that you are all keeping safe and well in these crazy times. Christmas is difficult for many in the LGBTQ+ community especially if they are lonely and unable to meet up with friends or family. Remember that a phone-call, a card or just a text message could make the world of difference so reach out if you can.

Have a wonderful, peaceful Christmas,

Best Wishes

From Master Tim and all the SMG team.